LAIZA

December 18th, 2006 by sweetlies

INFIDELITY..

Unfaithfulness to a sexual partner, especially a spouse.

1.. An act of sexual unfaithfulness. 2. Lack of fidelity or loyalty.

Infidelity is the breaking of any one or more of the covenants of marriage between the partners of the marriage. These covenants bind the partners to standards of behavior which protect and nurture the partners within the marriage and therefore the marriage itself. Any breaking of the covenants of the marriage may be considered an unfaithful act which is harmful and even destructive to the entity of marriage. We must, therefore, speak to infidelity on a multitude of levels: sexual, emotional, mental, physical, and spiritual. Because of the deep connections created and forged by intimate emotional and physical/sexual intercourse we recognize and acknowledge this form of infidelity as the most destructive to the marital bond and therefore to society as a whole.

INFIDELITY Betrayal, especially of a moral obligation: disloyalty, faithlessness, false-heartedness, falseness, falsity, perfidiousness, perfidy, traitorousness, treacherousness, treachery, unfaithfulness.

at present it doesnt only applies with the covenants of marriage..but it should be practise amongst those who’s involve in a relationship.. why get marry with someone or rather plan marrying someone if you cant even stop flirting..or get involved with someone else..or if you couldnt even be truthful with your current partner..

a year of disloyalty..months of unfaithfulness.. days of lies.. hours of deceitfulness…

why not..change it..

an eternity of loyalty..a year of genuine honesty..months of truthfulness..days of being faithful..hours of thinking only of the person ur currently involve with..minutes of undying love only for her or him....

..karma do exist…

DERS NO RULE

December 18th, 2006 by sweetlies

"And with love there are no rules…!!! You have to take the risk,he said..We will only understand the miracle of life fully when we allow the unexpected to happen… Every day God gives us the sun - and also one moment in which we have the ability to change everything that makes us unhappy. Every day, we try to pretend that we haven’t perceived that moment, that it doesn’t exist - that today is the same as yesterday and will be the same as tomorrow. But if people really pay attention to their everyday lives, they will discover that magic moment. It may arrive in the instant when we are doing something mundane, like putting our front-door key in the lock; it may lie hidden in the quiet that follows the lunch hour or in the thousand and one things that all seem the same to us. But that moment exists - a moment when all the power of the stars becomes a part of us and enables us to perform miracles. Joys is sometimes a blessing, but it is often a conquest. Our magic moment help us to change and sends us off in search of our dreams. Yes, we are going to suffer, we will have difficult times, and we will experience many dissappointments- but of all this transitory; it leaves no permanent mark. And one day we will look back with pride and faith at the journey we have taken. Pitiful is the person who is afraid of taking risks.Perhaps, the person will never be disappointed or dillusioned; perhaps, she wont suffer the way people do when they have a dream to follow. But when that person looks back - and at some point everyone looks back - she will hear her heart saying, "What have you done with the miracles that God planted in your days" What have you done with the talents God bestowed on you? You buried yourseld in a cave because you were fearful of losing those talents. So this is your heritage; the certainty that you wasted your life."

i love to travel

July 6th, 2006 by sweetlies
After all my melodramatic scribblings, its time for me to put a lighter side of me here on my blogs. Awhile ago i was watching the boxing fight of Manny Pacquiao and Chololo Larios, the game was great but then i begun curious of the root place of Larios which is Mexico…

I love traveling and i dream of traveling the whole world. I guess my top three place or maybe four would be Mexico, Hawaii, London and Paris and i would definitely be most fond of this places more if ill spending it with a great partner. I already have a choice but its up to him if he wants to go with me..

Mexico because it reminds me of ancient civilizations.Temples and cathedrals contrast with futuristic buildings and fully-equipped beach resorts. Elsewhere, elements of the ancient and colonial cultures persist in aspects of rural life. They have such lively and colorful festivals and even their towns and markets. Just hearing the country Mexico, the first thing that pops up in my mind is how sizzling and romantic the place is..so much passion! oozing of hotness!! I love their buildings it has these Baroque American style,very exotic! All the ruins which will definitely gonna give me the creeps. Its the same as the one in the movie "The Mummy",oooh! full of adventure and discovering stuffs in the past! When it comes to beaches..i really prefer Hawaii but then in Mexico, i would want to try their famous Acapulco and Cancun. Where most mexican telenovela are set at this place. How about food? How can i ever forget it..i love the quesadillas! tacos! flautas! uuumh! delicious! the caldos..its the same as the aroz caldos here in the Philippines. It just has more vegetables on it which i absolutely gonna love more!
Now lets talk about Hawaii...i adore this country obviously because of their beaches and it is located at the Pacific ocean..i would certainly try their taditional dance.."the Hula". Im in the vein of learning it so i can burn some of my fats around my waste and belly. Im fond of their colorful clothes while their dancing.. the flowers and stuffs! And i would want to see the Maui island. I prefer going to Palauea Beach. Palauea means"lazy". Maybe because of the ambience and the aura of the place..which is very relaxing. You would just want to stare at the beautiful view of the ocean and have a nice nap after it. Ideally, for individuals who would want to escape the urban life for awhile. It is also a great place for scuba diving and snorkelling which ive been wanting to try for the longest time but i dont know how coz i dont know how to swim..hihihi! And thats why im bringing a partner for him to save me..hahha! in case of emergency! hehehhe!! Again the food! i like to try their rice grayish pudding. They also have this "laulau" entree which is wrap in a banana leaves. i would eat it if the filling are pork, beef and vegetable but if its fish on it..ooh! no! no! never! Their more on salmon, teriyaki..seafoods! I guess there’s no harm trying it. im not a seafood eater! well, they do have fresh fruits,right? and hamburger and pizzas..hahahha!!
Now lets have a glimpse of London, such dreamy and loving country! aaah!! Ill be at the Buckingham Palace first which is the official residence of the queen. Then up we go to Hardon where most famous shopping stores can be found. Oh my gosh! i need alot of money here! such an expensive country! I would also want to have a few step at their Tower Bridge which is a very recognizable spot in London specially at night. A perfect place for couples who would want to have a private moments with themselves while enjoying the lights of the tower and its stunning view. Food in London can be dreadful, unless money is no object. Like what ive said its such a pricey country. I guess the finest chefs can be found mostly in the European countries so there’s no doubt i cant eat their food unless i dont have anymore money left in my wallet! geeh! They have lots of cafe,restaurant and bars which is so classy! They have an array of cuisines and all of them are said to be remarkably delicious! I dont have any problem with the food..i need money! money! money! hahahha! i love to go to these country.
Lastly Paris..again i need money! what a costly country! Okay..if ever i do have the money already ill go Eiffel Tower,Notre Dame. I would love to see its gothic architecture. Another would be the monument dedicated for Napoleon Bonaparte which is Arc de Triomphe with a such wonderful view of its structural design. Louvre Museum is one of world’s largest and best known museum in fine arts. This is something i want to see! One of the most alluring images of Paris is of the Seine River, where most lovers can be found. It would be such an interesting place for couples but for me ill just enjoy the nice site of it. Best of all, you can see the river in all its splendor without it costing alot of money. All you have to do is ride these small boats..Be sure to check out the various bridges, each of which has its own unique charm and personality. Theres alot of place to be discover here in Paris which is why this is my last pick.I wont have any problems with their food for they have lots of pastries,pasta, pizzas..foods that i crave most!
Such a fine-looking country with lots of attractive spots.. i need alot of work hard money to be able to go with all these places. I guess i just have to go with some other cheaper country first before these four. i would definitely would want to share it with a partner and share a unforgettable moments in this list of my fave countries. Lucky him! for he could be able to experience and explore the wonderful creations of men..not to mention..he’ll get alot fun because he is with me… Shocks!!hihi!!

a trash in my past! oops! sorry!!

June 29th, 2006 by sweetlies

I was browsing the net when i accidentally saw a "trash" in my past..hehehhe!!

He is my exboyfriend, it seems he has posted some new pictures in his account which is why i became curious and take a glimpse of it..

This is the funniest moment of my day, he really did make my dull day full of laughters even for awhile. When i saw his pictures..the same old smile..the same pose..which makes me wonder if he is a gay!!! hahhaha!! well, he is actually one of my exboyfriend who has the most perfect face..

Not to mention, i wonder why some of them change alot different now..there like this rose who suddenly turn into a dried one..does your girlfriend taking good care of you?? then what happened to your face!! Lucky me!! i maintain my composure and my sweet deceitful face..heheheh!! im so cruel..am i?? this is just the other side of me..the byatch inside of me..i can even get into fist fight if i want, if you’re gonna really push my temper to the limits..You can ask my real friends!!

Im not trying to be mayabang..im just being honest..im not like all the guys who i had met in my life!! im not a liar! i only tell the truth..i know i have a son already, im not getting younger anymore but i never forget how to carry myself and look good infront of many people. Take note! ive still got the brain as well for intellectual conversations..

Oooopsss!! Sorry!! i got carried away…back to my gay exboyfriend..yucks! he definitely gonna hate me for this..the hell i care!! But there’s really something wrong about him..he has too much concerns with his vanity..he put so many different kinds of cream and toner in his face..he use various kinds of lotion and he wants me to use body wash instead of soap..my gosh! whats wrong with using a soap!! whats the difference! i mean! gosh! why dont you just used feminine wash in your mouth instead of mouth wash..!! he always fix his hair! all his clothes are signature! he even choose my own brand of perfume! on that part..he has a good scent for it.. he choose my clothes! he brushes my hair! he almost change me to a person that im not really am..he never forget to have a body and foot spa!! the way he talk..the way he eats..everything is so proper! specially in his car..its so clean..so neat..so perfect and im disgusted with it..oh pleeeaaasssee…

Yah! yah! i loved him before which is why i accepted all of it but now i can see clearly how privilege i am that we split up..im sorry..maybe he is really not my kind of guy..i want someone who is more connected to his masculine side..who can make me feel secure and not afraid to get dirt in his pants or shirt..or even play in the rain..i want someone who knows how to define "fun".. and he dont have any vices..good for him but not for me!!

Okay..he was not really that bad after all coz he is also one of the sweetest exboyfriend i had..  "the innocent one" which you would thought is not capable of misleading someone else’s heart!! but i again i was wrong..many guys are born deceiver..i used the term "many" coz if i use "all" it would be me waiting in vain for my destined one..

i guess he is not really gay..he just really love taking good care of himself..i admire you for that..

im not being nasty..its what inside my thought. this is a free country!! hihihi!! and this is my blog!!

And this guy is _ _ _ _   _ _ _ _  _ r_ _ _ _!! sorry!!

try to be nice..

June 28th, 2006 by sweetlies

Criticizing people..many are doing it! why? for fun..coz they dont have any intelligent topics to talk about which is why they kept messing around with other people’s lives..trying to prove themselves that they are the better one..yah right! tell it to your face..

i do criticize other..but oftentimes its a constructive one..not the offensive type that you’re already dragging the person and treat them like an outcast. Sometimes, i criticize the way other peoples dress,their make-ups, the way they talk etc..but there not all below the belt. Im criticizing them for their own good..for them to look good..there’s nothing wrong about it..

How would you know if its the offensive type? when you’re actually judging the personality of a person without even knowing them that much.Like me..im a single mom. When people hear about this kind of scenario, they automatically think and treats you as if you’re the most unlikeable being in this world. Some would treat you as if you dont deserve to be loved nor to be respected..To the point that they’ll gonna discriminate you..Single parenting is difficult..its a huge responsibility. Yes it is..giving birth at an early age wasnt a regret for me. Maybe because im fortunate to have my supportive family and few true friends to be there for me..besides what a lucky child!! for he has a great mom..one hot momma!! not to mention!! hhehhehe!!

Im proud to be a single mom! and im telling it to you now..it doesnt make me less of a person!! No one has the right to judge me for what i have now..or what i am now..coz nobody exactly knew the pain ive been through and how i was able to survive it with such beauty and grace..only few can do that!! me..my girl friends and a small percentage of women with a great personality like us..i surpass them all..all alone..!! and i think its not our lost anymore if they cant accept us specially on my part..ive known myself very much..i know for a fact that i shouldnt be maltreated just because of it..or else i wont gonna let my last breath ends without having my revenge on you! i maybe the nicest person they knew but ill be their worst nightmare if they mess up with me so badly..

Tell me lies but dont you dare step down on me..

I guess only those people.."the matured ones" can actually appreciate the inner beauty and the inner strenght we possess..and to those airheads..grow up!! Sometimes its not good anymore trying to be so perfect coz you forgot to look deeply within urself that you have also your own imperfections, flaws and weaknesses..Stop talking sh-its with other people..Stop trying to over ruled any one..

I can never change other points of view with this simple post..like them, its just my own opinion..my own perception..and im sorry for the choice of words i used..im only trying to be as real as i can in everything that i wrote..i dont mean to hurt anybody..this is just my own thoughts..

i’ll just gonna live my life that way as it is..happy and pretty..my simple smile and my kindness will serve as my shield to those people who’ll continue to put me down..my faith in God and my indisputable love will give me the hope for other people to stop treating me unjustly and completely unacceptable..

friend and real friends..???

June 28th, 2006 by sweetlies

Dream makers of my life..

if theres one thing that i treasured most in my life that would be my friends..the dream makers of my life..They have been my source of strenght..my inspiration..my happiness..without them i wont be this strong and determined person that i am now..

We love hanging out with each other..We love goin to the bars..the typical type of teenagers..(before)we even have our own vices..smoking and drinking..we love giving problems to our proffesor..we belong to the teachers enemies..hahha!! we’re one of those who give them such headache..we even love skipping our class but we never had any failing grades..our education is very much important to us..Although some of us didnt had the chance to finish it still were very proud of them..for having such grace for surpassing all the challenges of their lives and for still being so damn pretty up to now..

Speaking of beauty..all my girlfriends are like goddesses..they love make-ups, jewelries..they love to dress up being the center of attention..the spotlight..they always maintain such poise and elegance..we make the word simplicity into a unique one..no wonder we belong to the popular one..beat that!! byatches..and freaks!! we dont want other people picking on us..we dont want them stepping on us..we dont like other people messing in our lives..coz most of us love the word "REVENGE"..count me on that part..i love it..hehhehe!!

but more importantly..we have brains to pair up with our beauty..we have good hearts to those people who gives us respect and love us for what we are..most people think were all snobs..not really were just very careful of giving our trust. Many people "i think"  tries to pull us down..maybe because they have too much insecurties. heheheh!! Maybe because we really take good care of ourselves..and that no matter what they do or where our destiny lead us..we’ll remain the beautiful fighter that we are..

They are my real friends..they were not just there in times of your needs..giving you advises..being there if you wanna get drunk..going to the parties..we can get it all to those people we knew in our lives.

But real friends..i dont think it would be hard to find..too difficult to prove..In my case with them..they’re really my good friends coz they taught me to be productive, they taught me how to believe in myself, they taught me of not being contented of what i have that i should always strive for the best..despite of the classes we never attended..we remain one of the top students..how do we do that? coz we always think that having fun has its right place and time..or maybe not..we just know how to handle things equally..We just dont want be like those others who ended like dumb fools..trying to enjoy their life with wasteful stuff that doesnt mold them to a better person..who only grows old with their age but their minds run like a child..

That is the reason why im so proud of my friends now..Josh had already become a confidential agent of bureau of immigration..and now a call center agent..Tonee was a professor of Batangas State University and now working in a travel ageny. Nica is now a well acclaimed singer in China..a girl who never get tires of working..Hazel, she have been at Mandarin Hotel and now working at Century Park Hotel. Madz, i cant actually tell here all the jobs she had for the space wont be enough..Mama Jae, a loving mother and now currently working at Sucat..Nella, a proud mother to her family..Myra and Em who’ll be back here in the Philippines soon after working in Singapore..I,myself..choose to be happy with my son..and currently waiting to be with my parents in Italy.

Well, i have my other reasons why i still dont want to get a job..for there is one person who is important to me than finding a job..I choose to be happy loving him beyond any pains he had done to me..and right now things are complicated for the two of us..but i would still choose to be happy!! and keep the goodness in my heart so that everything would perfectly fall and end up nicely..for him and for myself..even if he treating me as if im just a stranger..an ordinary person..nowadays..i would still remain his friend..a very good one..

I know ive tried my very best to be great friend with other people that ive met at present and as i can see it now..im doin a very well job..its because of them my ninetysixers, my family..who mold me to a better person that i am right now..i wont just be a friend..ill always try to be a real friend..a true friend..for all the people whom i trust and gave my heart freely..

Right now, we dont have any chance to be together for we all have our own priorities in life but the friendship we have still remains..and we’re all looking forward of having a reunion soon..i love you girls..i miss you all..

if you dont get brains dont read this!!

June 27th, 2006 by sweetlies

SPELL THIS "L"…

what this "L" means? what does it stands for? well..i guess only those who got brains can actually determine it.. does it goes for L-ove..L-oner..L-ongingness.. i dont think so!! Ive known alot of people who possess this "L"..there like freak of nature..those are the people who should be eliminated in this world as early as they were born..hahahha!! We should be alarmed coz 90% of it we’ll walk into our lives..trying to put us down..trying to ruin us..And its up to us if we’ll gonna let them take the inner strenght and the inner goodness we have. They’ll gonna continue sucking on us until nothing is left for our own selves.. How can we let our innocense be fooled by this kind of people..why does God let them exist like human being when they are acting like animals..

In my life..ive seen alot of snakes trying to bite me until im lost in my own state of mind..It happens so often but did i kick the snake..did i try to kill them..na-ah!! what a waste of energy..I just give them a smile and try to see things in a positive way. I dont want my anger ruled over me..Some may consider me belonging in this society of "L"..well try a little bit hard..try telling to it yourself!! fools!! hehehe..

Bato! Bato sa langit ang tamaan wag magagalit..DONT OVER REACT ON IT!! its just written words..its just my opinion..im not pertaining to any particular person here..OH COME ON! dont tell me you’re affected by it..are you really that stupid..i guess so..i know what you’re thinking..

It doesnt mean "looser"…god!! are your brains as small as bean for you to think of it..im not that bad..cruelty is not on the list of my personality..heheheh!! im just trying to be one of this "L" people.. get it? get it??? shocks!!

I hate you! I hate you so much! am i good already..or should i try it more..you still dont get it..try to re-read everything ive wrote before reacting in a wrong way..i just hope it will make sense to you more..

dont try to dictate me!! f-u-ck off!!

June 27th, 2006 by sweetlies

–i dont believe them…prove them wrong..all the things you’ve done and told them were not true..tell me im right? two weeks from now i hope you could come again into our house..ill wait. the moment ill see you in that gate..kakalimutan ko lahat lahat kung pano mo ko pagtawanan, kung pano mo ko balewalain..i promise myself nothing can ever ruin us..the friendship or what the hell we have right now but if you’ll be happier without me and if you dont need me anymore.. then beat it..–